True Meaning of Twitter Insults: Snowflake, Cupcake, Cuck, Libtard, and Butthurt
When I first encountered the terms Libtard, Cupcake, Cuck, and Snowflake on Twitter, I had to look them up because I hadn't encountered them in daily life. People don't seem to use them face to face. It's easy to hurl insult-grenades from the safety of distance, without having to look people in the eye. It's the cowardice of the white hood... it is hiding in the shadows because you can not withstand the shame of acting dishonorably in broad daylight.
I will argue that these insults reveal a great deal about their users: people who are suffering from self- loathing, isolation, and fear. I'm not a fan of Political Correctness, so I will NOT ask people to surrender their right to free speech. I believe free people have the right to say even the most horrible things. I merely wish to give you the tools to disarm the power of these words to inflict injury. I leave it to you to make your own decision regarding whether you will use any of these insults, condone their use, or react to them.
(added 1/26/2017: "Butthurt" see bottom of article)
Let's look at each in turn:
CuckA cuck is an effeminate man. In the recent election, this insult was popularized as a jab at Jeb Bush (Low Energy Jeb). The word is derived from cuckold, which is a man whose wife is cheating on him because he can't control her or satisfy her. You are probably beginning to see a pattern in the themes? http://www.gq.com/story/why-angry-white-men-love-calling-people-cucks
|"short bus" internet meme|
The word traces an interesting etymology that presumably fights back against the so-called "PC-nazis." Let me put myself in the shoes of someone who uses this word. Let's call him John. The word "retard" is frowned upon by society. Recently, I've even seen it referred to as the "R-word" by disability advocates who see the word as abusive and demeaning. It is especially onerous because it singles out a vulnerable population that is frequently abused (as we saw in the horrible kidnapping and torture case recently). John feels frustration that he cannot use this word anymore due to political correctness. John shortens the word to "retard" to make it "slangy and cool" and no longer makes fun of disabled people. However, this logic is faulty. It's like saying "nig" is not related to "nigger" because it's shorter. But here's where it becomes truly interesting. John transforms "retard" into a morpheme (a building block of language, such as suffixes, affixes, etc) and glues it to "Liberal." John feels triumphant. He feels free to use the word because if he gets called out, he can claim the PC Nazis are oppressing his right to use a legitimate slang term. He feels justified in getting indignant when someone thinks he shouldn't use the word that has been hurled at many disabled people as they were getting raped or the shit kicked out of them. John is proud of himself. He feels edgy and rebellious.
For this article, I did a quick search of "libtard" on Twitter and got thousands of posts. I copied one here because I liked the fact that the person also used the word "retard" to make sure he or she was clear about their position on "retards." I found it equally interesting that this person's avatar is a Christian cross. I think this person should spend more time reading their bible and less time Tweeting.
"Retard" is an offensive term to persons with disabilities and their loved ones. But, who am I to curb your freedom of speech. Use it if you feel you must. In fact, why don't you use it more. You should walk up to the next disabled person you meet and call them a retard. Or, you could call grandma, who is starting to feel the effects of Alzheimer's, and call her a retard.
Here is a link to "Crip the Vote," a non-partisan advocacy group on Twitter that is trying to empower persons with disabilities. This page explains why they use "crip" as a way to reclaim the power of an insulting term: http://cripthevote.blogspot.com/2017/01/notes-on-crip.html?m=1
I couldn't resist adding this one because I thought it was very inventive. This guy has taken the "libtard" to a new level. He has added the F-word prefix and -ia (meaning land) as a suffix to create a place for libtards to live. Interestingly he dropped "lib," so, technically this is just a place for "retards" to live. If my daughter weren't dead, I suppose he'd want her to live here happily. I'm sure he's a kind family man, this one.
Translations of the Four InsultsAfter seeing how the four insults are used on Twitter, it seems that their users regard these words as cute and clever, "intended to infuriate Libtards." They also see themselves as warriors on the front lines of a conflict to preserve a particular way of life. So let's translate these warrior tools into English. What is the user really revealing about themselves:
When you see Snowflake, read: "I have not lived up to my own expectations. I'm afraid that I am not special."
When you see Cupcake, read: "I wish I could live a life of compassion and love, but am pigeon-holed by the culture into a role that makes me unhappy. I wish I could openly love My Little Pony."
When you see Cuck, read: "I am sexually inadequate."
When you see Libtard, read: "I fear that I will be seen as intellectually inferior by others."
When you parse these words out, you end up with a person who deserves your compassion and understanding. This is a person who is lost, afraid, and feeling threatened by changing social structures. This is a person backed into a corner and lashing out. This person does NOT wish to engage in constructive dialogue. This person is a bully.
And Don't forget "Butthurt" (added this note recently)
"Butthurt" moved from Twitter to Facebook for me, so when the above usage appeared in my FB feed, I thought I should add it to my catalog. I don't have a problem with the political statement made in the image. I just wonder about the use of very nasty language. I looked up "butthurt" on Urban Dictionary. They say it's directed at one who has an overly emotion response, characterized by shame towards a perceived aggressor.
Now, I can swear like any man, but this one seems peculiar to me. Let me understand the context: A person (in this case a liberal) has a butt that hurts. Why does it hurt? Did they slip on the soap in the shower? Have they been spanked? Or is this really an anal rape joke? This is the picture I get in my head: the bully has just finished raping you anally. He is buttoning his pants when you complain about the rape. He laughs at you and says, "What's the matter, does your butt hurt?"
I see this term used by both the "Right" and the "Left." When I see it, it have to wonder about how the user frames the world in their mind. The user of this insult believes that the complainer is crying over spilled milk, but instead of saying, "Hey, it's not as bad as you think. Here are the reasons I disagree with your assessment of the situation regarding the spilling of milk," they make a joke about anal rape.
Weird place to go, don't you think? Not too civil, if you ask me... not a way to have a productive conversation.
ConclusionWhen one of these insults is thrown at you, translate or rephrase them as I've done above. Instead of feeling anger-- feel pity for these people who have to resort to insults and personal attacks because their arguments lack supporting details. Just remember, these attacks say more about the attackers and their personal demons than they say about you.
For information about bullying, see https://www.stopbullying.gov/what-is-bullying/
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